We all want control. We think are in control. I hate to tell you this, but control is an illusion. This goes against every human instinct…but it is so necessary! When is the last time you could make your heart beat? When is the last time you could make it rain? When is the last […]
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Saying # 14 that drive my girls crazy
This one in many ways sums up a lot of how I parent. I’m always, always looking ahead asking how will this play out in their future? If you can’t do it later you can’t do it now From way back when my girls were young I taught them if what they were doing wasn’t […]
What do you respect about your kids?
Our kids often think we only see the bad things. I really want to know what you really love and respect about your kids! I love the WAY my youngest daughter is loyal I can’t do it justice to explain how she does this so please check out this video. She does this in such […]
Saying #13 that drives my girls crazy
This one a HOT button with my girls! I can hear them now and I can smell the smoke! LOL But guess what? It pays off big time! Treat people better than they treated you Why?? Because it makes you a better person and it will pay off later too! Some who have a very […]
Saying #12 That drive my girls crazy
I literally grew up on the back of a horse since I was a wee little thing. It didn’t take long…at all…to figure out I better read this horse correctly or trouble was coming. People are no different. Everything is diagnostics We are so quick to want to control and then we are so quick […]
Saying #11 that drive my girls crazy
Over the years of watching other families grow through challenges as well as being a mom myself, I began to notice consistent patterns. This was one of them. Relationship first There are very few hills to die on in my mind. When we are upset and ready to fire off at someone we really would […]
What you need to know about loyalty
Loyalty seems to get muddy and it’s worth talking about. I’ve seen people go back to people who are not loyal to them so let’s chit chat about it! Who is worth your loyalty? I’ve seen so many people be loyal to people who don’t deserve it. So let’s talk about this…They are: kind & […]
Saying #10 that drive my kids crazy
Sometimes our kids ask us things and we feel like we need to defend ourselves when we say no, but what if we turned it around? Make me feel like a genius for saying yes! When our kids ask us if they can do something that is outside the realm of normal and we say […]